Self-Reflection Activities for Kids | The OT Toolbox

Self-Reflection Activities for Kids

Self-reflection is a tool that kids and adults can benefit from. Reflecting on one's actions and behaviors is a great way to grow as an individual and to meet personal goals. Think about a time you've set a personal goal. Maybe you wanted to start exercising and lose a few pounds. By self-reflecting on a day's events, you can determine what worked in meeting your goal and what didn't work. You can intentionally put a finger on the parts of your day that helped you meet your goal of going to the gym and what stood in the way of eating healthy meals. Self-reflection is essential for goal-setting! Most of these occupational therapy activities are free or inexpensive ways to address self-reflection in kids.




Use these self-reflection activities for kids to help kids reflect on behaviors and identify coping skills or self-regulation strategies that work in the home or classroom.



These self-reflection activities can be a vehicle for helping kids to address areas of functioning in several areas. Improving self-reflection can help kids with self-regulation, knowing what coping strategies to pull out of their toolbox, how to act with impulse control, how to better pay attention, how to improve executive functioning skills, and how to function more easily.

Additionally, self-reflection pays a part in mindfulness. If we are practicing attentiveness in the moment and attending to internal and external experiences, we can self-reflect on what worked, what didn't work, and how to make things work better next time.

Self-reflection can be so helpful in social-emotional skills, academic learning, functional task completion, organization, and well-being!

Self-Reflection Activities for Kids


One of the first steps in raising self-reflection to to help kids be more self-aware. They can use tools to improve mindfulness to notice how they feel, how the react, or how they behave. Most kids will struggle with this ability in the moment (It's tough for adults, too!) but they can identify what worked and what didn't work in a particular situation through conversation.

  • Using self-control strategies like the Zones of Regulation can be helpful in talking about feelings and self-awareness.
  • Explore along with the child. When a child is playing or exploring their environment, it can be helpful to play right along with them. Use play experiences to communicate through play.
  • Use play experiences to mirror actions. When a child is playing, play right along with them! Mimic their actions and words to be more aware as a caregiver of the details of a child's interactions and to bring awareness for the child. Use this tactic only when the child is in a positive mood. Mirrored actions should not be completed when a child is behaving poorly or to bring attention to behaviors.
  • Reflect on the day as a family. Plan a family meeting and talk about the good, the bad, and the ugly of the day. It's a good way to talk about ways to work on areas of need.
  • Create a Choice Collection. Come up with options that include coping strategies or tools to use in different environments. These could be part of a sensory diet or self-regulation strategies.
  • Use a journal to self-reflect through words or drawings.
  • Act out situations and how the situation played out. Consider adding dolls or toys for characters in the situations.
  • Model appropriate behaviors and self-reflection through conversation.



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Use these self-reflection activities for kids to help kids reflect on behaviors and identify coping skills or self-regulation strategies that work in the home or classroom.

What self-reflection strategies do you use?

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